First call for meeting!!!!

V8, LLS,

We are going to meet you two soon. Please prepare that we will have a bit of things for you guys get started! Hahaah!! Thank you for being part of our wedding.

Regards,
Kenneth & Percy

Back to Thanksgiving weekend.... (回憶)

I didn't come up here for a long time.... The reason I didn't come up ... Kenneth and I were so busy.... I resigned from my work... things happened...

Thanksgiving weekend, we went to Fair Haven... It was the Greatest WEEKEND for me. Not only with Kenneth, but with a lot of brothers and sisters I like to hang around....

Even I had that BAD BAD news, but very touching...

I know there are a lot of people love me... and love my family...

I mean.... I kind of leave it out.... to HIM, our Lord...

Love our Lord.... we leave it to HIM.... He handles everything for us... as long as we pray... we ask for help.... Look at the nature we have.... it is just very beautiful..... There is nothing can be that pretty we can see.... If HE give such good things to us.... how come we can't leave our problems to HIM to help us.... right?
Kenneth drove an hour away from the campsite. We arrived to this road side.... we took this picture... and went back to campsite. Sometimes, it is just that easy... time is not a big issue... how to be with someone you love to treasure the scenes you see.

We love colours.... BRIGHT colour!!!!!!

WE had a great trip!!! Thank you, Lord.

Do you know what? this blog is not only our memories of wedding, but our journey together from now....

爛 Gag 一則﹕

(鈴鈴。。。鈴鈴。。。)

Percy: "喂?"

Kenneth: "Hello?"

Percy: "嘩﹗ 你打俾我﹖﹖"

Kenneth: "我唔可以打俾你既咪?"

Percy: "唔係﹐不過﹐你今忙。。。唔expect 你 call 我。。。”

Kenneth: "我忙中有你 嘛。。。"

Percy: my face --> = = (流汗)

Pre-wedding shooting... Oct 7 2010

What a GREAT WEATHER!!!!

We went around uptown (Unionville, Brucemills and Aurora)...


I believe this is first time Kenneth needs to sit down and "BEING wore make up". He was like a BIG KID... heheehee!


This is my OUTDOOR Gown look! Do you like it?


This is a very good weather... and we also had chance to take pictures with Maple leaves... what a great chance....

THis is how I post myself! haahahaa!! TEll me what you think....

清水 (Michael Wong)

在每個悄悄細雨的深宵
棉被裡互送溫暖
為你買我已看過的影碟
行遍這都市



能好好相愛非難事
從細節中兌現
情似細水會流的遠
每朝早都共你吻一遍



多清談都心醉愛情是清水
吹不散敲不碎我們是一對
談情熱烈像煙花
難燒到八十歲
我寧願愛似清水
多清談多瑣碎也甜在心裡
天空裡深海裡我們亦一對
情人是活命的水
能輸進血液裡
那純淨那可失去



寒冷要會替你蓋起風褸
行過馬路要牽手
年老你我亦退休之後
遊遍這地球



能好好相愛非難事
從細節中兌現
情似細水會流的遠
每朝早都共你吻一遍
多清談都心醉愛情是清水
吹不散敲不碎我們是一對
談情熱烈像煙花
難燒到八十歲
我寧願愛似清水
多清談多瑣碎也甜在心裡
天空裡深海裡我們亦一對
情人是活命的水
能輸進血液裡
那純淨那可失去
猜到你一句透明像清水
吹不散敲不碎我們是一對
談情熱烈像煙花
難燒到八十歲
我寧願愛似清水
多清談多瑣碎也甜在心裡
天空裡深海裡我們亦一對
如命某部分太累
回憶也當樂趣
你尚在我的心裡
這甜蜜永不失去

沒有人承諾在神手中全是美好的

我永遠都不知道原來平時隱藏的問題﹐拿出來討論時是那樣的殘忍。。。

我不想發脾氣﹐ 也不想令你不開心。 不過﹐我不想LAST MINUTE。

我想和你總是給人感覺好開心好SWEET﹐但是﹐要在神的恩手中一齊行不是只有甜無苦。這樣我們便更加懂得怎去愛對方。

我依然很難過﹐依然很迷茫。。。

但我依然很愛你。。。

CONFLICT

We have our meeting, our marriage counselling meeting.... .... Getting more and more homework. Kenneth didn't want to waste the money....
but ... end up ... we had a very big disagreement.

When I wanted to work on the questions, he was busy with something else, putting other things on top of them.
When I didn't prepare the questions, all of a sudden, he wanted to finish all the questions the night before the meeting.

Maybe it was my problem. I am not agreed with this, so end up I gave up NOT doing the questions, but delay the meeting (Of coz, I don't want to let Rev Luong get mad. I told him that I had RASHES, which is TRUE, those rashes are so itchy and made me so uncomfortable.)

Maybe it is my problem... I shouldn't just STOP the discussion. I could tell he was not happy. But I really didn't want to rush to complete it.

It is very hard.... after all, it is my fault again..... I suck! stupid me....

PRE-WEDDING pictures.... On OCT 6 2010

Oct 6 2010 will be the first day I will do really serious stuffs for my wedding.

I am going to take pre-wedding pictures...
Don't know where to do...
But ... I really hate myself...
I look at the MIRROR....

I see the fat...
I don't like myself... why I have so much stuffs on my body that i don't want it.....??? How can I take the good pictures with Kenneth?

Kenneth is handsome, good looking... I don't want to make him look bad on the picture.... but my FAT....

How... ot cover up??? I can't ... especially on my gown....
the shoulders part.... DAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't like myself.... I really don't like to let other people tease Kenneth bcoz of my FAT...

Fat makes me look ugly...

I am sorry, Kenneth. I am still trying... I am doing my best... but still NOT good enough....

Gown trying last weekend

(Note: this is not me. She is skinnier and shorter than me a bit....)

There are going to be more and more weddings need to attend. The more I attend, the more fruststrated I am.

I never think of myself dressing up as a bride. I never thought I would be able to wear the gown. It is only for skinny people. At least NOT look so fat people wear that. By looking at the picture, I know why we need LONG dress for the church. It does look pretty.

I went to try on the gown last weekend. I was surprised that I can actually fit into the Gown, and I did had the choice to pick. (now I know they have different sizes.... dumb!) I was a bit upset as my SHOULDERS BIGBIG BIG... BIG ENOUGH like a wall... what the hell.....

I can't be the most prettiest bride, but at least I hope I won't be the ugliest bride. I really don't know how to lose weight.... I joined the clinic, went for medication, got accupunturist to help, etc etc... I tried to avoid all the temptations I have. seriously... There are so many temptations to me... daily... I already tried to avoid them as much as possible.

The time gets closer, the fear gets greater. Even I can't be the good looking bride, I hope I won't lose Kenneth's face...

I quitted my job as my health condition. When people admire me that I have holidays now. Yeah, I am blessed by God doing that... to me greatly, but I am not relaxing. Not bcoz of my wedding.. the wedding is not difficult at all, but my health condition. I want to have it recover ASAP....

Oh.... Ohhh.... ohhhhh... Percy Chan... Percy Chan... what are you planning to do... What are you planning to do....????

Process is FUN and happy!!!

Everytime when i come up here. I just have so many things want to say.

Times fly .... really really FAST! It is September 2010.... Our Wedding date is May 7 2011!!! less than 8 months.

The process of doing wedding is so easy. Once Mr. Man provide me a budget, and I am just working around it. Everything just so easy.

Based on the process. I realized that I actually have the ability to plan. May not perfect in some people's eyes. I know I am good with that.

When people struggle about the wedding planning. I am very happy with it. I don't know why people struggle...?

Give you a little Tip. There are so many choices. Don't pick ALL THE CHOICES. Once you picked something, don't look at the similar thing anymore (Thank you Kev gor gor for reminding that)

Now,
Banquet is confirmed
Church is confirmed
Budget is confirmed
Bombonniers are confirmed
Helpers are confirmed
Ideas are planned... wowooowowo!!! yeah....
DJ is confimred
Photographer is confirmed

I think we are good to go...

I would like to thank you my sponsors. I don't want to own you all too much "YAN CHING", Kenneth and I decide go for regular. I will remember your offers. Very Very appreciated!
You all just like giving us a cup of warm applecider when we really need it. We should be ok.
Thank you very much.



I love this picture very much... I felt the warm even I just look at the picture. Thank you all for making my dream come true.

30 Hours Famine together!!!

Thank God for giving us the GREAT WEATHER!!!!! Being a volunteer is not hard, being a volunteer who needs to fast 30 hours is not easy...

They did it! they did it with Kenneth and me. We both were part of this activity. I had to do it since I was the organizer, but Kenneth did it.... for the children? for the poverty? or the physical challenge?? I don't know ... maybe for me? Thank you ...

Not only thank him, but thank everyone who contribute into this activity. I am very appreciated of it.

Once again, Thank HIM for giving us opportunity to join this activity. I felt so great.

Knew that I helped some people from the other side of the world.

Knew that I took the challenge without any BIG problem

Knew that I had a chance to do this with Kenneth. It was my joy. =)

Don't worry. I didn't eat like that afterward... that was how I wanted to, but I didn't.

Reserve the date for us....

I would love to let you all know....

Confirmed May 7 2011 is our DAY!!!!!!!!!

BIG DAY before the BIG Day....

April 4 2010.

Kenneth's Baptism.

So happy for him...

Wedding Cake trail out (Cake 1)

Feb 17th is the first cake arrived.
Thank you, Jennifer.
Good that it is not a BIG one, good size to taste. For sure not only us to taste it, but I share with people around me.

Kenneth was so full when he took a bite on this cake. Based on what I know... It is a bit too sweet for us. Maybe we are already too sweet?

This is Carrot cake with cream cheese topping around it.

It is a very good taste!

Thank you, Jennifer. I will take this as one BIG treat from you! Thank you.

Feb 12, 2010

it is been weeks that I didn't update on this blog.

Nothing much...
Kenneth is still waiting for the closing date.

According to the unknown date, I tried to check things around. It is even harder bcoz all banquet halls (those are better) are booked until 2011.

Everytimes when I asked for the date, Kenneth said wait until the closing date.


Start to lose the energy to plan it... it doesn't matter anymore... it seems like not very important to him, then it should not important to me anymore...

I really don't know how it goes... for those who are waiting for my day. Please be patience... Waiting is another God's plan.

For sure not this year, it is ALL booked!
2011? I don't know...
maybe 2012?

I start to feel NOT to marry....

I wish I could ___ ___ ___ you!

It had been a tiring weekend for me. I was talking about physically and mentally. Something happened in my family: Connor, one of my dogs passed away. However, I stopped all the planning and focused on him.

I didn't go to fellowship, bcoz Connor was too weak, and I actually cancelled every meeting last friday and stayed home to be with him. He was not doing ok. I praised to Lord that I had enough time to be with him.

Last Fellowship was bible study. Learning from Habakkuk on how to pray to Lord. Even I didn't go to Fellowship, Kenneth went there and called me afterward, and tried to explain and to tell me what he learned during that time.

Saturday, it was the most difficult time by driving Connor to the Vet. Vet saw us arriving and he had everything ready. No one was welcoming us with Smile. Connor went to inside room with VET. Vet put I.V. on him and gave him medicine.

I prayed to Lord and hope things went ok. Kenneth was saying goodbye before we headed to Connor. ... ... ... don't wanna describe too details. I don't wanna cry anymore.

Anyway, Sunday was the 1st recovering day. People came to Kenneth and me to congratulation about the engagement.

Inside me, I was trying my best to hold on my tears. This was very mixed feeling for me.

Walk Together with HIM

I praised to God that there will be a person to walk with me along the journey. It will be different from before.

I praised to God that there will be a person to join my crazy family. just a balance purpose hahaah! (Just kidding!! More than that)

I praised to God that there will be a chance for me to join a nice lovely family. Just add more colourful dots into their lives (Of coz, I am talking about me!!!)

I praised to God that people are happy for us.

I praised to God that this Long journey will be able to hold HIS hands and walk together.

Engagement ring

People are so happy for me when they see the ring. But they keep asking me why not Left hand 4th Finger.

As you may know, I am left handed, and I am a very careless person. However, I would not to take the risk to put this on my left hand.

Right now, the ring is actually on my right hand 3rd finger. I really feel the most comfortable on this finger of my right hand.

Don't know the date yet, need to discuss with Rev Terance regarding the church issue, may not do it in church afterall. I already started the planning when Kenneth is worrying about the house closing date.

I really hope things go ok. To be honest, I dont' think I will be able to be bride in 2010 as there are so many things to prepare even I really want to have my wedding on Thanksgiving.

Percy

This is what I may use

Do you like this? I like maggie's cartoon. plus. It really looks like us. haahhaaaa!!

Percy

for sure get it started

I didn't ask Kenneth about the blog.
I didn't even ask his opinion about this.

I want to praise to Lord about our relationship, and I want to let the World knows about it. so I decided to use this method.

I am a blogger, and I don't mind to have this to share with my friends and people who "bump" into this webpage.

Hi, my name is Percy. I would like to share with you all: I just engaged to Kenneth last Dec 28 2009. Didn't have the chance to tell EVERYONE yet, not only the Engagement, but I would like to tell the world that God is the major part of it.

Without HIM, without our relationship.

Thanks to God for giving me the wonderful man and the graceful relationship.

Ok, The new chapter of our lives will start soon.

I will use this blog to write down all the wedding preparation, and how we feel about the whole marriage things and stuffs. I would like to share this with our brothers and sisters, as well as our friends and families.

I already gave the access to Kenneth as well. Sometimes you will see the Better English, that should be Kenneth. For my English, sorry, still like that. =)

For the "not understand Chinese friends", you may have a hard time to read some of the journal, as I may write in Chinese when I feel like to. =P

Now, let's begin....


Percy